Trudnica je postala svoju fotografiju – i završila na pornostranicama!

Međutim, njene fotografije došle su u pogrešne ruke: slučajno je otkrila da je ta fotografija s velikim trbuhom – zajedno sa 15 drugih – završila na „pregofilija“ internetskoj stranici, pornostranici koju posjećuju ljudi koji se pale na trudnice. 

Kad je krenula istraživati tu stranicu, naletjela je na fotografije žena koje očito pojma nemaju da su njihove trudničke fotke završile na pornosajtu. 

 

That time my bump went viral in a not so good way. This bump pic along with around 15 other pictures ended up on an online "preggophilia" site. Which is a porn site for people who like pregnant women. I see so many people upload their bump pics and now I just gasp and hope to god they don't get into the hands of someone they shouldn't. We shouldn't have to worry about people stealing our photos, but unfortunately it happens ALL THE TIME! When I was scrolling through this god awful site trying to find where this thread was, I saw some pretty fucked up shit. People who were uploading pictures of their wife to other users, brother in laws uploading pictures of their sister in laws and women uploading pictures of their work colleagues!!! I literally couldn't believe what I was seeing. Who was I to blame for this? People would say I should only blame myself for uploading "personal pictures" and that it was my own fault (even though my profile was then private). I see it differently. I didn't care that someone had screen shot my photo to show someone, it's was what they did with my photo that made me physically sick to my stomach. WHYYY should we have to sit and worry about this when uploading a photo on our social media sites? Please be cautious about who follows/adds you. Block them if they look like a creepy MF. Moral of the story, I totes want another bubba and a big Ol' belly like this again! 😫😫

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Meg je cijelu priču podijelila s javnošću – kako bi upozorila druge trudnice. Na svojoj Facebook stranici je napisala: 

„Moj trbuh postao je online-fenomen – ali, nažalost, ne zbog dobre stvari. 

Ova fotografija mog trbuha – zajedno s drugih 15 mojih fotografija – pojavila se na „pregofilija“ internetskoj stranici. To je pornostranica za ljude koji se pale na trudnice. 

Vidim jako puno žena koje stavljaju na Internet svoje trudničke trbuhe te se nadam kako njihove fotografije neće završiti tamo gdje ne pripadaju. 

Ne bismo trebale brinuti o tome da nam ljudi kradu fotografije, ali to se nažalost događa cijelo vrijeme. 

 

This date crept up way too quick. Although, even though time is passing fast, this date and time of year needs to be quick. 3 years on from the start of the most traumatic day of my life. This year has been easier than the last two. The lingering thought seems to fade as years go by. Seeing my baby lifeless and thinking she had already left this earth before I got to meet her is something I will never forget. I'll never forget the alarms, the shock, the blood, the pain or the look on anyone's face in that theatre room that day. Today, I am thankful. Thankful for modern day medicine, health professionals, and my beautiful, healthy little family. #ptsd #ptsdawareness #VBAC

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Kad sam skrolala kroz tu prestrašnu stranicu – kako bih pronašla svoju fotografiju – vidjela sam uistinu odvratne stvari. Ljudi koji su stavljali fotografije svojih supruga kako doje dijete, muškarce koji su stavljali fotografije svoje šogorice – čak i žene koje su podijelile fotografije svojih kolegica. Nisam mogla vjerovati svojim očima. 

Koga okriviti? Ljudi misle da sam si sama kriva, jer sam stavila svoje fotografije na mrežu – premda je moj Facebook-profil u tom trenutku bio privatan. Međutim, ja to vidim malo drugačije. 

Svejedno mi je tko je napravio screenshot mojih fotografija kako bi ih pokazao drugoj osobi. Ali to što su napravili s njima, od toga mi je muka u želucu. 

Zašto bih trebala računati s time ako stavljam svoje fotografije na društvene mreže? 

Dakle, budite oprezne i gledajte tko vas sve prati ili želi biti prijatelj s vama na društvenim mrežama. I blokiraj ih ako vidiš da su ludi š…ci! 

I za kraj: željela bih još jednu bebu i još jednom ovako velik trbuh poput ovog!“